Succeeding with yourself and life
To succeed as yourself requires pursuing your humanity, true self, taste, style, your truths, beliefs, visions, passions and ambitions, and to live with integrity and loyalty to yourself. It requires taking responsibility, building yourself, your freedom and capacity to defend your interests.
Personal success, happiness, health and personal safety
-Making the most of yourself and your life, seizing days in a way that also builds better tomorrows.
“And one day I realized that it’s no one’s responsibility but mine to take care of myself and make myself happy.”– Unknown, sometimes attributed to Coelho
“If your choices are beautiful, so too will you be.”
– Epictetus“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive — to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.”
– Unknown, sometimes attributed to Marcus Aurelius“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.”
– Socrates“In the depth of winter, I finally found that within me there lay an invincible summer.”
– Albert Camus“It is good to love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.”
– Vincent van Gogh
Proactivity is to take responsibility and initiative to create good results and/or make visions come true. It is also to analyse and prevent risks from happening. It then relies on assets, knowledge, experience, insight and personal abilities. It then relies on clarity and understanding of prerequisites, methods, processes, experiences, interests, consequences and effects. Be a strathege.
My 4 core tenets
A life plan
Structured into phases and areas, with prerequisites analyzed.
Covering roles, goals, priorities and going from large to small.
Define your visions and work towards them.
Be a strathege!
A personal philosophy
Write your own personal doctrine. Define your beliefs, theories, morals and ethics in your own doctrine.
Cover what ideals, principles and values you pursue in each role in life. Define your purpouses in life.
Continously improve this by reflection and meditation. Pursue improvement and be constructive.
A lifestyle framework
Either a schedule or a list of constructive, rewarding, healthy habits and activities. A balanced lifestyle that is both healthy and satisfying.
Also some rules, what to not do, be distracted by etc.
This can be a schedule, structured plan or simply a list of what to do every day, week and month. Strict or free – up to you!
Life artistery
Seize the days in a way that also build better tomorrows. Life is a summer breeze, a beach and picking a flower to put in your hair. Make the working day special, do things that are beautiful, exciting, passionate and meaningful. Pursue a high life quality. The life of your dreams! Be creative.
Be a life artist!
Positivity is to keep a positive orientation, perspective and be constructive. We should be at least 80% positive and only 20% anti-negative. The positive is what we want to be capable of, safeguard, find ways to, construct, and achieve – that should be our focus. We should also focus on positive expectations, apreciation and gratitude – the good in ourselves, others and life.
The solution to any problem can usually be found in the antonyms of its reasons, the solution to a positive vision is something else. A positive orientation and perspective is ultimately most rewarding and successful. To be constructive means to keep a positive orientation and vision and find solutions.Be constructive. Be positive!
Lifestyle activities
-Workout, exercise, gym and sport
-Personal quality – hygiene, beauty, style and fashion
-Food, nutrition and supplements
-Healthy consumptions
-Life quality activities and consumptions
-Health and fitness consumption
-Family and social life
-Romance and intimacy
-Mental practise
-Studies
-Work, business and career
-Personal brand
-Relationships and reputation management
-Wellness, calmness and wellbeing
-Active resting and relaxation
-Meditation, planning, reflection and budget
-Adventure and exploration
-Dating and intimacy
-Music, atmosphere, mystery, entertainment and such
-Inspiration, pep and motivation
-Life creativity, social creativity, popularity, life quality creativity and such
-Dignity and quality time
-Apreciation, gratitude, positive reflection, enthusiasm, hope, passion, interest, fascination etc.
-Pursuit of self and happiness
-Housekeeping and home activities
-Peoples cultural life, tradition and societal activities
-Social activities and gatherings
-Hobbies, talents and interests
-Meaning/sacred/divine (whatever you believe in)
Be healthy at core with room for reasonable life quality.
Tend to your health, quality and personal success while it´s allready in a positive state.
Keep a balance!
Life assets and life ability
-Economy, wealth, property and standard
-Tools, equipments and assets
-Name, reputation, credibility, brand, logo, signature, value of time and service, influence etc.
-Relationships, networks and alliances
-Insurances, memberships and safety setups, self defence training, legal competence, qualification, personal safety and health knowledge, life experience, life knowledge etc.
-Health and fitness property, memberships, consumptions, relationships etc.
-Education and qualification
-CV and portfolio
-Hygiene, health, physique, vitality, strength, endurance, beauty, style, charisma, confidence and self esteem
-Mental capacity, principle thinking, proactivism, synergistic thinking, success mindset, positivism, objectivity and constructivity
-Clarity, knowledge, experience and insight
Build your freedom!
Life roles
-Individual role – self responsibility
Personal leadership, responsibility for life and loyalty to self thinking. Independence and responsibility. Clarity.
-Family roles
-Love relationship roles
-Parent role
-Friendship and relationship roles
-Society role
-Professional, entrepreneurial and official roles
-Other personal roles based on life preferences
To succeed with all roles in life requires to prioritize between roles and to analyze morals, ethics, ideals, values and principles for each role.
Succeed with all of life!
What does it take to be capable of everything you want in life, and being who you want to be? How do you find this clarity and craft this ability?
Perspectives and beliefs
I personally empathize:
-Personal leadership, management and coaching
-Success mindset and positive mindset
-Human perspectives
Reasoning about human experiences, emotions and concepts in human ways. In philosophical, metaphorical and poethical ways. With objective common sense.
-Life philosophy and a reasonable level of philosophy and poethry
-Useful education
-Democracy and constitutionalism
-Society responsibility. Paying taxes etc. Living my life, prioritizing what I do, taking responsibility by tax paying. End of story.
-Knowing the rights, law, self defence and security I need and defending my rights and interests in life in a constitutional way.
-Undefined hope. The good exists. Hope without rigid definition or explanation. Just hope.
-Normal health perspectives and mental health perspectives. What´s constructive, positive, synergistic, harmonic etc. Positive consequences, effects and results.
-A little sensation, excitement and atmosphere
-The life achievement
-We are all gifted with empathy/solidarity, passion for life and desires, personality and identity wishes, purpouses, a longing for meaning, intelligence and intellectual abilities. Life is about pursuing this.
-Improvements and forgiveness
Enabling, encouraging, recognizing and defending improvements. We are free to walk away from everything that is our life, do something and be something completely different. Because of this and more than this, we are free to improve.
Sometimes the victories over the reasons for bad events are most important. I believe people can find themselves, improve, and keep an improved integrity. I also believe that responsibility is sometimes complex. We must learn mitigating and exculpatory circumstances well before we appoint responsibility. It´s not fair to be unfair. And the best solutions to problems are not always intolerances, it´s proactive solutions that prevents the problems from ever happening.
-Synergy
-Pursuit of personality and true self, pursuit of purposes, pursuit of moral satisfaction and integrity. Pursuit of happiness.
Make the absolutely most of yourself and your life, achieve your purposes, be healthy and live well!
Personal safety
Personal safety is mostly attained trough all of the above, trough the positive achievement, constellation, ability and process. Secondarily, it´s achieved trough undeveloping and avoiding risk and distraction. Trough avoiding the negative, disharmonic, assynergistic, unhealthy, dangerous or destructive.
-Crime and criminality oriented risks
-Crime propaganda or culture
-Misuse, addiction etc.
-Bad registers, bad economy
-Cheap commercial addictions
-Misguidance, false reasoning, positivity and dignity
-Getting stuck in limiting or oppressing roles or relationships
-Distractions and waste of time
-Negative, destructive or clarity-destructive culture, propaganda, media etc.
-Risks of crimes, accidents, diseases or injuries
-Risks of mistreatments or unqualified decisions
-Legal risks
-Publicity risks
-Conflicts, hostility, greed, corruption, risk situations etc.
-Conflicting constitutions, societies or religions
-Extremism, alternativism etc.
-Economical risks
-Poverty, low standard, being uninsured etc.
-Perspectives and theories that makes you unhappy
-Unsolved mistakes and past. Always constructively and constitutionally distance yourself from what´s negative in the past. Learn and integrate the positive clarity, behaviour and integrity that should have been. Solve anything bad in the past, that you´ve succeeded over it.
The focus should be on pursuing, achieving and apreciating the positive. Avoid, prevent and block out the negative. 80% positive safety, keep your integrity. Avoid risk and distraction. The primary is to be positive, and then proacively anti-negative while maintaining the positive orientation. I believe also, we have common sense to guide us. By using objective common sense and our insight into life in society we can predict effects and consequences, and by that achieve success and safety.
Be safe!
Synergy is to keep eachothers interest and proactively benefit eachother.
It then requires insight, knowledge, capacity and ability. It also requires loyalty and integrity. Synergy can be win-win commerce, representation, friendships, relationships or alliances. It can be cross-marketing. It can be partnerships. It can be teamwork. Together we’re more capable than independently.
“Snus är blott snus, om än i gyllne dosor, men även i spruckna krus, rosor förbliva rosor”
“Dirt is only dirt, even in golden cases, but roses will always be roses, even in broken vases”
-Be loyal to yourself, believe in your true self, keep a solidary good intent and treat others with respect. That and the good you have deserved is what defines you, not your situation or state. Not your mistake or the reasons for your mistake. Who you know you are and will be, is what defines you.
Roses will always be roses.