Making the most of yourself and your life!
Building your life, asset, freedom, lifestyle and identity according to your own preference.
Study, work with and integrate the things you want to become.
Write your own life story and accomplish your own life achievement.
Personal success, happiness, health and personal safety
-Making the most of yourself and your life.
“And one day I realized that it’s no one’s responsibility but mine to take care of myself and make myself happy.”– Unknown, sometimes attributed to Coelho
“If your choices are beautiful, so too will you be.”
– Epictetus“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive — to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.”
– Unknown, sometimes attributed to Marcus Aurelius“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.”
– Socrates“In the depth of winter, I finally found that within me there lay an invincible summer.”
– Albert Camus“It is good to love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.”
– Vincent van Gogh
Proactivity is to take responsibility and initiative to create good results and/or make visions come true. It is also to analyze and prevent risks from happening. It then relies on knowledge, insight, clarity, experience understanding and consequence understanding.
Before physics was invented and written as a science we could understand that apples that detach from the branch fall to the ground. It´s similar with life, asset, intentions, behaviours, attitudes, activities and habits.
We can understand by objective common sense what life in the modern world and society works like and what is good for us and our life and what is not. We can understand both simple and complex direct consequences, effects and results from theese effects; just by objective common sense.
Core setup
A life plan
Structured into phases and areas, with prerequisites analyzed.
Going from large to small.
Plan in a personal, passionate and yet serious way.
Have a large plan and work over weeks and days with small todo lists, schedules etc.
Choose your life!
A personal philosophy
Define your beliefs, theories, morals and ethics in your own personal doctrine.
Cover what ideals, principles and values you pursue in each role in life. Define your purpouses in life.
Continuously improve this by reflection and meditation. Pursue improvement and be constructive. Don´t overdo it, it should add to your life, not take from it. Don´t become to complicated or complex.
Find useful clarity!
A lifestyle framework
Either a schedule or a list of constructive, rewarding, healthy habits and activities. A balanced lifestyle that is both healthy and satisfying.
Also some rules, what to not do, be distracted by etc.
Plan your lifestyle!
Passionate days
Seize the days in a way that also build better tomorrows. Live so that your life impresses you and makes you proud. Live so that it´s stimulating and motivating. Make the days meaningful, beautiful and enjoyable.
Live so that you love your life!
Positivity is to keep a positive orientation, perspective and be constructive. We should primarily positive and only in a neccesseary way anti-negative.
Lifestyle activities
-Workout, exercise, gym and sport
-Personal quality – hygiene, beauty, style and fashion
-Food, nutrition and supplements
-Healthy consumptions
-Life quality activities and consumptions
-Health and fitness consumption
-Family and social life
-Romance and intimacy
-Mental practise
-Studies
-Work, business and career
-Personal brand
-Relationships and reputation management
-Wellness, calmness and wellbeing
-Active resting and relaxation
-Meditation, planning, reflection and budget
-Adventure and exploration
-Dating and intimacy
-Music, atmosphere, mystery, entertainment and such
-Inspiration, pep and motivation
-Life creativity, social creativity, popularity, life quality creativity and such
-Dignity and quality time
-Apreciation, gratitude, positive reflection, enthusiasm, hope, passion, interest, fascination etc.
-Pursuit of self and happiness
-Housekeeping and home activities
-Peoples cultural life, tradition and societal activities
-Social activities and gatherings
-Hobbies, talents and interests
-Meaning/sacred/divine (whatever you believe in)
Be healthy at core with room for reasonable life quality.
Tend to your health, quality and personal success while it´s allready in a positive state.
Keep a balance!
Life assets and life ability
-Economy, wealth, property and standard
-Tools, equipments and assets
-Name, reputation, credibility, brand, logo, signature, value of time and service, influence etc.
-Relationships, networks and alliances
-Insurances, memberships and safety setups, self defence training, legal competence, qualification, personal safety and health knowledge, life experience, life knowledge etc.
-Health and fitness property, memberships, consumptions, relationships etc.
-Education and qualification
-CV and portfolio
-Hygiene, health, physique, vitality, strength, endurance, beauty, style, charisma, confidence and self esteem
-Mental capacity, principle thinking, proactivism, synergistic thinking, success mindset, positivism, objectivity and constructivity
-Clarity, knowledge, experience and insight
Integrity is like a closed fist around your decisions, values an ideals. A good life asset and life situation is like muscles in the arm. It´s easier to keep it closed when the world tries to convince you to open it and let go.
A good life asset is the foundation of your freedom. Freedom is what you´re capable of and what´s available and possible. It´s not just to choose what you want to do, you have to make yourself capable aswell by meeting the prerequisits.
Build your freedom!
Life roles
-Individual role – self responsibility
Personal leadership, responsibility for life, self and loyalty to self thinking. Independence and responsibility. Clarity.
-Family roles
-Love relationship roles
-Parent role
-Friendship and relationship roles
-Society role (Whatever level of involvement and role you have or choose to have into being a citizen of your society.)
-Professional, entrepreneurial, official roles and leadership roles etc.
-Other personal roles based on life preferences
-Alliance or membership roles and similar
Prioritize between roles and analyze who to be in each role. This is an important clarity. That we have to be a different person depending on the role and situation.
Succeed with all of life!
What does it take to be capable of everything you want in life, and being who you want to be?
Perspectives and beliefs
I personally empathize:
-Being genuine and also strategic, but genuine at core and strategic when it’s called for
-Personal leadership, management and coaching
-Success mindset and positive mindset
-Human perspectives
Reasoning about human experiences, emotions and concepts in human ways. In philosophical, metaphorical and poetical ways. With objective common sense.
-Life philosophy
-Living with passion and love for life
-Useful education
-Privatization, private services and functions.
-Society is necesasry functions, rights and rules based on sound ideals. Society is necessary for life and the rules are necessary for society to function. Simple like that.
-Be solidary trough society by buying the constitution for others. And assuring it if necessary
-Live with self-interest in a respectful way
-Knowing the rights, law, self defencs and security I need and defending my rights and interests in life.
-Undefined hope. The good exists. Hope without rigid definition or explanation. Just hope.
-A proactive health and success perspective. What´s constructive, positive, synergistic, harmonic etc. Positive consequences, effects and results.
-Pursuing life quality, a good time, enjoyment, passion, enthusiasm and the good things in life.
-Acceptance and purpose aligning perspectives.
-The life achievement
-Make the most of yourself and your life. Do your best and act your finest. Be loyal to yourself.
-Constructivism and positivity
-Being genuine or strathegic
-Synergy
-Pursuit of self, purposes, moral satisfaction and integrity. Pursuit of happiness.
Make the absolutely most of yourself and your life, achieve your purposes, be healthy and live well!
Personal safety
Personal safety is mostly attained trough all of the above, trough the positive achievement, constellation, ability and process. Secondarily, it´s achieved trough undeveloping and avoiding risk and distraction. Trough avoiding the negative, disharmonic, assynergistic, unhealthy, dangerous or destructive. It´s also obtained trough being capable of defeating risks and bad interests.
-Be capable, well, healthy, well insured and have legal coverage
-Behave in legally safe ways
-Know self defence, security, law and constitution well. Also know the process and procedure well. The requirements. It´s one thing to do and be right, it´s another to be safe from court.
-Avoid negative, destructive, unhealthy, confusing, assynergistic, disharmonic, conflicting and intolerated things. Avoid hostility and bad interests. Avoid risks of accidents, diseases, injuries, costs etc. Avoid unsafety.
Tend to your health, weallness, wealth, personal quality, personal success and safety while it´s allready in a good state.
Be safe!
Synergy is to keep eachothers interest and proactively benefit eachother based on insight and understanding. Together we’re more capable than independently.
“Snus är blott snus, om än i gyllne dosor, men även i spruckna krus, rosor förbliva rosor”
“Dirt is only dirt, if so in golden cases, but roses will always be roses, even in broken vases”
-Be loyal to yourself, believe in your true self. Who you know you are and will be, is what defines you.
Don´t let anyone define you negatively when you have only positive purposes, intentions and potentials.
Roses will always be roses.